I’ve mostly understood bondage as a practice that’s pleasurable because it enhances sexual acts. Being restrained and spread eagled on a bed, ready to be fucked… Mmm. I’ve definitely read other blogposts before where people discuss their need or desire to be bound, but I can’t say I’ve been able to understand it before.
Until now, that is… I’m wearing a lovely choker that F recently gave me (it used to be hers, but she doesn’t like it anymore because one of the spikes fell off). No, it’s not an actual collar, it’s purely decorative. Still, when she snapped it around my neck, it felt… nice. Probably because I have a very sensitive neck, but it was even more than that – I felt an inexplicable sense of security.
Then one day I was procrastinating and surfing SexToy.com. And I found two armbinders that I fell completely in love with (here and here). Imagining myself naked, with someone (mostly Christopher, I have to admit) gently pulling my arms around my back, lacing the ties up or buckling the cuffs… the leather fitting snugly around my arms/wrists…
And, as I imagine, security and trust and need wash over me.
So, now I guess I understand what it’s like to want to be bound for no other reason than simply being bound.
Of course, after I was bound and someone was to run their hands over me, and explore my prone body, well… I probably wouldn’t complain.
Oh I also really want this. (Spanking someone and having it result in “bitch” imprints? How can I resist?) And the Actor took my Leo dildo (that he paid for, granted) and my Jaguar harness might be lost, so I want to replace those too. Why do I have to be so broke? =(
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“I felt an explicable sense of security.” I had never thought of being bound in that way, but it makes sense. Provocative pics – very sexy.
There is something very…safe, and secure, in submission and bondage. IT’s out of your hands, and into theirs. They will take care of you in that time frame. You can let go and be free.
I do wonder what it will feel like to have mine finally put the collar around my neck for our night together – its only ever been on me for old HNT photos, put on by me, for him.
Yours looks good on you
Nice collar (even if it is “only decorative”) and a lovely neck. ^_^
You’re so beautiful. Your hair looks so soft, and then the leather and the spikes are so… not. Lovely photos. I would love to trust someone enough to wear a collar for them one day. You have seen secretary right?
That collar suits you very well – and is remarkably elegant! The first image is one of my favourite this week, and will be included in my Sunday roundup
xx Dee
Lovely photos, especially the second — totally what Amalthea says about your hair and the collar. I imagine you’re smiling in the second, and it’s as if your face is actually the source of that light.
Until quite recently I used to fantasise a lot about tying up a woman and um all the rest, but the only time I ever tried it, it was completely tedious and even unpleasant. I suppose, unless you both really know what you’re doing, you would have to almost write a script to act out.
The first armbinder is the style I always use (in my dreams).
Collars . . . this one looks like it’s made for you, missing spike and all.
Paddles . . . “XOXO” did it for ours, but I do like “BITCH” too.
Dildos . . . you can never have enough.
Thanks guys
Amalthea: I’ve watched Secretary (with the Emperor and his gf both times, actually) but the first time I was drunk and the second time I was tripping, so I want to watch it properly, for once :\ I do remember very much identifying with both of the characters and finding their dynamic very very interesting
Perfectlips: For me it has a *lot* to do with the person tying me up/I’m tying up… if it was someone I had no emotional relationship with, or not the right kind of emotional relationship, I can see it being really boring or just plain bad.
Merlin: Yes, I remember reading about the XOXO paddle in your blog, it’s definitely a cute paddle