Comments on: Happily Single http://heartbreaknympho.com/2009/01/19/happy-singledom/ fuck the pain away Wed, 08 Sep 2010 05:11:20 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Wilhelmina http://heartbreaknympho.com/2009/01/19/happy-singledom/comment-page-1/#comment-430 Wilhelmina Sun, 25 Jan 2009 23:46:57 +0000 http://bipoly.wordpress.com/?p=875#comment-430 Thanks, Lou. I'm glad to hear that things worked out for you too :) Merlin: I definitely think there are a lot of good things to being in a relationship too... = why I wanted to be in one again for so long... Amalthea: *hugs* :) Thanks, Lou. I’m glad to hear that things worked out for you too :)

Merlin: I definitely think there are a lot of good things to being in a relationship too… = why I wanted to be in one again for so long…

Amalthea: *hugs* :)

]]> By: Amalthea http://heartbreaknympho.com/2009/01/19/happy-singledom/comment-page-1/#comment-429 Amalthea Thu, 22 Jan 2009 22:36:11 +0000 http://bipoly.wordpress.com/?p=875#comment-429 I love this! Good for you!!! This list shows amazing growth in and of itself. I love this! Good for you!!! This list shows amazing growth in and of itself.

]]> By: merlin17 http://heartbreaknympho.com/2009/01/19/happy-singledom/comment-page-1/#comment-428 merlin17 Tue, 20 Jan 2009 04:24:25 +0000 http://bipoly.wordpress.com/?p=875#comment-428 There are pluses and minuses to being in a relationship with some degree, or total exclusivity. I wrote about the pluses on my blog a couple of weeks ago: avoiding the risks of disease and pregnancy, and allowing a deeper and more meaningful bond to develop. The minuses, of course, include the fact that we don't know what we're missing with other people. But a plus is that we don't care. It's a rush, of course, to develop connections with new people, even if some are transitory and limited. There are a lot of people out there, and you can certainly enjoy the variety without strings. There are pluses and minuses to being in a relationship with some degree, or total exclusivity. I wrote about the pluses on my blog a couple of weeks ago: avoiding the risks of disease and pregnancy, and allowing a deeper and more meaningful bond to develop. The minuses, of course, include the fact that we don’t know what we’re missing with other people. But a plus is that we don’t care.

It’s a rush, of course, to develop connections with new people, even if some are transitory and limited. There are a lot of people out there, and you can certainly enjoy the variety without strings.

]]> By: UnfetteredLou http://heartbreaknympho.com/2009/01/19/happy-singledom/comment-page-1/#comment-427 UnfetteredLou Mon, 19 Jan 2009 19:12:19 +0000 http://bipoly.wordpress.com/?p=875#comment-427 W, for me the progress from out of a relationship to really feeling like myself (even just discovering who I was now that I was no longer defined by who I was with) took 6-9 months, and then it took me another 6-9 months to get to the place where all was good in my life and I was happier than I had been in a long time. That has led me to some interesting adventures, and better relationships even with my friends. Sounds like you are well on the way as well. Best of luck. Lou W, for me the progress from out of a relationship to really feeling like myself (even just discovering who I was now that I was no longer defined by who I was with) took 6-9 months, and then it took me another 6-9 months to get to the place where all was good in my life and I was happier than I had been in a long time. That has led me to some interesting adventures, and better relationships even with my friends. Sounds like you are well on the way as well. Best of luck.
Lou

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