Comments on: Stress http://heartbreaknympho.com/2009/10/25/stress/ fuck the pain away Wed, 28 Jul 2010 02:41:41 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Merlin http://heartbreaknympho.com/2009/10/25/stress/comment-page-1/#comment-1275 Merlin Thu, 29 Oct 2009 03:59:56 +0000 http://heartbreaknympho.com/?p=2613#comment-1275 I always find it bizarre when a lover breaks off emotionally after sex. Probably because I could never do that. But even if this one was intellectually stimulating and sexually fulfilling, if he's not into you enough to talk to you after it's over it's not worth your time or obsession to pursue him. I know, easier said than done. .-= Merlin´s last blog ..<a href="http://petitemort.wordpress.com/2009/10/28/fruit-of-the-vine/" rel="nofollow">Fruit of the Vine</a> =-. I always find it bizarre when a lover breaks off emotionally after sex. Probably because I could never do that. But even if this one was intellectually stimulating and sexually fulfilling, if he’s not into you enough to talk to you after it’s over it’s not worth your time or obsession to pursue him.

I know, easier said than done.
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]]> By: Wilhelmina http://heartbreaknympho.com/2009/10/25/stress/comment-page-1/#comment-1267 Wilhelmina Mon, 26 Oct 2009 17:33:32 +0000 http://heartbreaknympho.com/?p=2613#comment-1267 yeah. i already emailed him to ask if we could talk but he hasn't responded. i really don't want to be uber confrontational and turn up in his room... sigh. oh, he doesn't know about my blog. not many of my friends do. if this goes any further (ha) i'll probably tell him about it though. yeah. i already emailed him to ask if we could talk but he hasn’t responded. i really don’t want to be uber confrontational and turn up in his room… sigh.

oh, he doesn’t know about my blog. not many of my friends do. if this goes any further (ha) i’ll probably tell him about it though.

]]> By: Odysseus http://heartbreaknympho.com/2009/10/25/stress/comment-page-1/#comment-1259 Odysseus Mon, 26 Oct 2009 02:07:35 +0000 http://heartbreaknympho.com/?p=2613#comment-1259 You *clearly* should talk to the guy asap. No matter how it comes out it's better than what you're going through now. Your conjectures are all reasonable, but they vary widely from each other and how you should act is different depending on what is up. (By the way, one additional possibility you didn't mention is if the blog itself affected things in some way.) Spinning your wheels and going nowhere is stressful and unproductive. There are times when guys are completely mystified by what's stressing out a woman, but anyone should know that cutting way back on contact after being in bed together risks being hurtful, so he shouldn't be shocked if you need to talk. Good luck! (And don't lose being unnecessarily affectionate/touchy with people you like -- it's a sweet quality and they are lucky.) You *clearly* should talk to the guy asap. No matter how it comes out it’s better than what you’re going through now. Your conjectures are all reasonable, but they vary widely from each other and how you should act is different depending on what is up. (By the way, one additional possibility you didn’t mention is if the blog itself affected things in some way.) Spinning your wheels and going nowhere is stressful and unproductive. There are times when guys are completely mystified by what’s stressing out a woman, but anyone should know that cutting way back on contact after being in bed together risks being hurtful, so he shouldn’t be shocked if you need to talk. Good luck! (And don’t lose being unnecessarily affectionate/touchy with people you like — it’s a sweet quality and they are lucky.)

]]> By: Zac http://heartbreaknympho.com/2009/10/25/stress/comment-page-1/#comment-1258 Zac Mon, 26 Oct 2009 00:52:22 +0000 http://heartbreaknympho.com/?p=2613#comment-1258 Talking to him is probably the best thing you can do. Decomplicate things and just ask the guy! Talking to him is probably the best thing you can do. Decomplicate things and just ask the guy!

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