Sir has been on a bit of a choking kick lately.
He’s never really mentioned choking before, but since I started subbing to him he’s brought it up quite a bit.
Today, Sir granted me two jack-off sessions. The first was while I was videochatting with him. After telling me to strip off each piece of my clothing until I was naked, he gave me a choice: to come on camera, or off camera. After some initial nervousness, I felt comfortable enough with myself to choose to come on camera. I lay back, adjusted the computer so he could see, closed my eyes, and went at it. I knew Sir was naked, jerking off at the same time, and I wish I wasn’t so self-conscious so I could look into the camera, and watch him.
Maybe next time.
Afterwards, Sir told me how much he enjoyed seeing me. He’s trying to make it so that I’m comfortable enough to perform for him. I’m surprised at how quickly I felt at ease with being naked, and then getting myself off, in front of him.
My second session came with a condition:
Since you did so well with your performance art – you are due for a reward. We will focus on your traditional pleasure points. Toys are permitted. but you are required to do this in a way that pleases me. you will be fully naked, lying on your back. There is one key – you need to loop a belt around your neck, and pull it just slightly tight as you do this. Cut off no oxygen, just make it slightly harder to breathe. I wnat you to be able to come through this sensation… and hopefully love it.
Initially, I was at pains to figure out a way to keep the belt around my neck hands-free and without hurting myself. Finally, I looped the belt around my neck, used a rubber band to mark the point where I’d want to add a new hole, and made a new hole in the belt with a craft knife thing I’d drunken-kleptomaniacally taken from Zeta Mu one night (I should probably return it). The belt itself, interestingly enough, is from my first boyfriend. He left it behind, and I kept it, but it actually doesn’t fit me. I used it to belt Christopher once, and hopefully will use it again.
Anyway, the belt made it more laborious for me to breathe, but didn’t actually deprive me of air or make me feel lightheaded or anything, which I assume was the point. Feeling the leather and metal tight around my neck, and having to alter my breathing, added to my arousal almost immediately.
I used my trusty Lelo Ina and came ridiculously quickly.
I’m looking forward to the day that Sir will be the one wielding the belt.
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Note: I only had the belt around my neck for a 10-15 minutes, but I wonder if doing this multiple times would damage my neck. I feel like it’s the same as wearing a collar tight around your neck, but maybe I’m wrong. If anyone has any advice about this, please let me know. Also, ideally I would have wanted to do this with somebody else, maybe one of my roommates, knowing what I was doing so they could come check on me, just in case.
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Here’s my suggestion for when you are alone.. don’t use a belt, use a leather leash. Loop the leash through the handle so it creates a “choke collar”. You can then use the clip part of the loop to attach it to anything. While laying on a bed, all you have to do is move away slightly and the loop around your neck will tighten. All you have to do is move back and it will loosen up instantly. Just remember the point is not to push it on your own. It’s good that safety was of the most importance. I know your Sir would never cause you harm.
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“I know your Sir would never cause you harm.”
yeah, i knew he wouldn’t request me to do such a thing if it would hurt me. i was more worried about my choice of technique.
thanks for the advice though! that sounds like a good way to do it. i have yet to procure a leash OR a collar, but they’re definitely on my list…
You can really do it with anything. If you have rope. Make a handle and then run the rope through that and it creates the “choke collar” effect. The point is to make something that only tightens around you when you pull on it and will immediately loosen when you release the pull. Another way you can be doubly safe is by buying safety release products.. such as this: http://www.softlinesinc.com/order.html?pid=13 These are called “panic snaps” mostly found with horse supplies. You simply pull down on the buckle and voila you are immediately released. Or you can teach yourself a simple knot that just requires one simple tug and it falls apart. The “quick release knot” http://horses.about.com/od/basiccare/ss/quickrelease.htm
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The real danger comes from using materials that bind to themselves and don’t release like the first two posters have mentioned. Autoerotic Asphyxiation, as it’s known, is a growing trend in some corners of the Internet and it’s had some disastrous results. You instinct to let someone else know what’s going on is a good idea, but if something bad happened, they would only have a few minutes to react. Your self-narrate piece of the other day had chocking games in it, and while it can be sexy, it can also be very dangerous. So please be careful. We (I) want to read your stuff for a long, long, time.