Fantasies
By Wilhelmina Wang On July 25, 2011 · 14 Comments · In BDSM, Friends & Lovers, genderfuck, journal, sex, sex fantasy, strap on sex
A random list of scenarios I’ve been fantasizing about lately.
- Eiffel-towering a guy with another guy. Specifically: me and L co-topping another guy. Most likely I’d be pegging him while he’d be blowing L.
- Being fucked by somebody else while on the phone with L, describing what’s going on & letting him listen in. This is all thanks to a Watchmen fanfic I read where Dan fucks Laurie while she’s on the phone with Rorschach.
- Fisting someone. Thanks to the Watchmen kinkmeme, yet again.
- Footfucking someone. After a conversation with M where I was talking about how much I wanted to feel what it is like to penetrate someone with a penis. I posited that maybe footfucking would be the closest I could get since I have very sensitive feet. Probably not true, but the idea continues to pique my interest.
- Shoe/boot worship. C’mon, we all know I already have an excessive love of shoes as it is.
- Bathing & dressing someone else.
- Helping a guy cross-dress, e.g. putting makeup on him or brushing/combing his hair.
- Wearing a spandex head-mask while masturbating. Possibly pushing it up above my nose, and then taking it off altogether towards the end. I can’t really picture myself doing this with another person, both because I’d be too self-conscious, and because another person’s involvement isn’t really necessary. I think this idea sprang into my head due to my recent obsession with Deadpool, but I remember wearing a face-mask once and feeling oddly safe and comforted by having a large part of my face covered. And there’s this piquant sense of mystery about someone engaging in a sexual act while having a part of their face covered, or having their face covered, period.
- Getting fucked while dressed up in full dandy guydrag. For quite a while, I’ve been wanting to fuck with my gender presentation a little bit and purchase a tomboy/masculine wardrobe to go alongside my feminine one. Apparently I tend towards dressy masculine clothing just like I tend towards dressy feminine clothing, because I find myself wanting to dress in suits and ties and waistcoasts and pointy-toed loafers. Obviously, soon afterwards I began wondering about what it would be like to get fucked while dressed like this.1
- Doing vanilla things while I’m tied up. Specifically while in a chest harness, with my arms tied behind my back. I generally like having my upper body tied more than my lower body, probably because I can do more with my hands than with my legs, or because I value being able to manipulate things with my hands more than I value being able to move around from place to place with my legs. I had a little adventure with this at the last play party I went to, where M did some suspension work with me, then left me in the chest harness for a bit. I managed to turn on one of the bathroom taps and take a drink of water; pick up my wine cup, which was on the floor; scale a set of stairs to the upper floor2 where everyone else was socializing; and find someone to help me pour some wine into my cup and put the cup to my lips so I could have a drink. I like being able to see how much I can do on my own without the use of my hands, but I also really like being helped by others. Which brings me to…
- Someone messily feeding me or giving me a drink while I’m tied up. I have this very specific scenario of me in the chest harness, at a play party, and L feeding me a spoonful of a creamy-textured dessert, or giving me a drink of wine/champagne, and “accidentally” smearing some on my cheek or spilling some down my chin. I really dislike messy eating, and I frequently wipe my mouth and hands with my napkin when I eat. But with my hands tied, I’d obviously have to ask L to wipe my face for me. Meanwhile, I would be a little embarrassed at appearing “messy” in front of other people. And then I picture L picking up a napkin, smirking, and then setting the napkin on the table so that I’d have to walk over and awkwardly rub my face against it in order to get clean again.
- Getting fucked/fondled while asleep or getting fucked/fondled awake.
Reading this over… it’s funny to see how many of my fantasies stem from either fandoms I’m following, or from my neuroses.
- Coupled with the mask thing above, I’m a hop, skip and a jump away from wanting to get fucked while dressed like Rorschach. And I… don’t really want to mentally go there right now, because… what the fuck, self. [↩]
- This was a terrible idea, and I advise against doing this. I could have seriously hurt myself if I had fallen over. [↩]
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Yep the last one still gets me. There was a lot of that happening during the period I was sleeping with massage therapy boy and I still can’t get it out of my head. It often, in fact, drives the kind of porn I watch.
hmm, did you mention massage therapy boy to me? apologies if you did and i forgot -_-
where do you find sleepy!porn?
Do you want to be the one worshipping or the one wearing the shoes that are being worshipped? BTW shoes are hot and that’s that
the one wearing the shoes, for sure
although i once saw someone at school wearing christian louboutins, and i really wanted to put them in my mouth. i kind of didn’t care about *her* at all, though, i just wanted her shoes!
I clicked on with mention of bondage as part of normal attire. I have yet to find a specific term for bondage that stills allows for mobility. Ropewear, perhaps? In such a situation it seems to be about bodyart, it seems.
The other aspects that are connected with it, the physical challenges, the needs for assistance, even being infantalized as it appears in the second to last scenario seem to involve secondary that only you can describe the bases for.
As for the last scenario, I don’t really understand why you needed to be so wordy.
rope-wear (it is a thing; i don’t know what the term for it is though) doesn’t really appeal to me that much tbh. i still want to be immobile, but just specific parts of my body.
I do think we have more in common concerning this fine point of ligature aesthetics.
That’s literally the hottest thing I’ve ever heard in my entire life. If you’re ever down for meeting someone online, I could help you with the eiffel tower one..
well, i assume that i’m probably a little too far away for that, unless you’re in asia
I don’t think I could lick your shoes from America.
I just discovered your site. It is refreshing to see that there are others out there with whom I share similar thoughts. Lately it seems as though the last one you mentioned has been running through my mind nonstop.
lol. great list. feel free to get in touch to fulfill that foot fucking fantasy any time.
sam´s last [type] ..Ep 2: One Last Time
I really love the last one…mmm sleepy sex
Mistress L´s last [type] ..Dude looks like a lady
Number two sounds like it’s catered to a very specific type. I can’t imagine even trying to describe this sort of thing to a person over the phone – it might be a turn on to some, but an intimidating roadblock for someone else.