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Contest: Christmas competition at Vibedirect

By Wilhelmina Wang On December 23, 2011 · Leave a Comment · In swag, Uncategorized

Breaking my hiatus to pop in and quickly announce that Vibrations Direct is doing a Christmas competition where you can win £120 of sex toys – all you have to do is fill in a form with your name and contact info.

The competition is open to the UK, US and Europe, and [...]

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Fantasies

By Wilhelmina Wang On July 25, 2011 · 14 Comments · In BDSM, Friends & Lovers, genderfuck, journal, sex, sex fantasy, strap on sex

A random list of scenarios I’ve been fantasizing about lately.

Eiffel-towering a guy with another guy. Specifically: me and L co-topping another guy. Most likely I’d be pegging him while he’d be blowing L. Being fucked by somebody else while on the phone with L, describing what’s going on & letting him listen in. This is [...]

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Pleasurists #138

By Wilhelmina Wang On July 12, 2011 · Leave a Comment · In pleasurists, Uncategorized

rough 02 by freakshow9

Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. If you like what you see and want more of it be sure to follow our RSS Feed [...]

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Review: Tantus Tease

By Wilhelmina Wang On July 10, 2011 · 15 Comments · In sex toy review, sex toys, silicone, tantus, vibrators

I have a little confession to make: the Tantus Tease – which is essentially a bullet vibe and a ~3″ silicone sleeve – has joined luxury toys like the Lelo Siri and Nobessence Romp on my “favorite toys” list. Why? Because of one simple reason: the Tease [...]

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Rope marks

By Wilhelmina Wang On July 7, 2011 · 8 Comments · In BDSM, M, reflections, rope

I’ve been doing quite a bit of rope stuff over the last few months. A new friend of mine has been giving me some rope pointers, and has also been practicing his tying and suspension skills on me.

I’ve decided that my skin gets marked up fairly easily. The marks may be a [...]

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e[lust] #27

By Wilhelmina Wang On June 29, 2011 · Leave a Comment · In elust, Uncategorized

Guess what, I made the week’s top 3!

Photo courtesy of A Bedroom Blog

Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions [...]

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How to deal with annoying Fetlifers

By Wilhelmina Wang On June 27, 2011 · 3 Comments · In asshats, BDSM, Friends & Lovers, M, Uncategorized

Trigger warning: racist & sexist slurs

A chatlog? Haven’t done one of these in a while. Anyway, here is a chatlog between me and one of my (white, straight, cisgendered, male, top) friends.

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Wilhelmina: i wish random fetlifers i don’t know would stop trying to come on to me via messages

Wilhelmina: this [...]

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10 reasons why I shouldn’t have had sex, but did anyway

By Wilhelmina Wang On June 21, 2011 · 22 Comments · In Friends & Lovers, kinda sorta awk, reflections, relationships, sex

As a preface, I just want to say that I expect you to realize that, obviously, I’m not trying to say that (promiscuous) sex is inherently “bad.” You can have sex for good reasons and bad reasons; you can have sex safely, or you can do it in ways that hurt yourself and others. I [...]

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Examining My (Conflictingly) Poly Self

By Wilhelmina Wang On May 24, 2011 · 2 Comments · In non-monogamy, reflections, relationships

I know that I’m poly, to some level.

I call myself “theoretically polyamorous,” as in, I know that I’m capable of being being attracted to or in love with multiple people at once, but I don’t put it into practice in my life, i.e. in a practical sense, I am monogamous.

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