So… remember how I was complaining about my local kink scene?
I recently found an event listing on Fetlife about an actual kinky party (!!) that’s being organized here – pretty exciting, as we currently don’t have anything like that here at all.
The downside? The poster and announcements so far aren’t very [...]
I’ve never really been part of a “kink scene” or BDSM community before. I only started really exploring kink in college, and our campus didn’t really have that much to offer, and neither did the small American town it was in. So I guess it’s only understandable. After returning to Hong Kong, though, I had [...]
A quick update to say that I’m still here.
I haven’t posted in—wow—six months, due to a number of new changes in my life that are totally positive, but still took some time to adjust to.
That aside, I haven’t actually had all that much to write about lately; my own sexuality has more or [...]
Fantasies
By Wilhelmina Wang On July 25, 2011 · 14 Comments · In BDSM, Friends & Lovers, genderfuck, journal, sex, sex fantasy, strap on sex
A random list of scenarios I’ve been fantasizing about lately.
Eiffel-towering a guy with another guy. Specifically: me and L co-topping another guy. Most likely I’d be pegging him while he’d be blowing L. Being fucked by somebody else while on the phone with L, describing what’s going on & letting him listen in. This is [...]
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Review: Tantus Tease
By Wilhelmina Wang On July 10, 2011 · 15 Comments · In sex toy review, sex toys, silicone, tantus, vibrators
I have a little confession to make: the Tantus Tease – which is essentially a bullet vibe and a ~3″ silicone sleeve – has joined luxury toys like the Lelo Siri and Nobessence Romp on my “favorite toys” list. Why? Because of one simple reason: the Tease [...]
I’ve been doing quite a bit of rope stuff over the last few months. A new friend of mine has been giving me some rope pointers, and has also been practicing his tying and suspension skills on me.
I’ve decided that my skin gets marked up fairly easily. The marks may be a [...]
Guess what, I made the week’s top 3!
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How to deal with annoying Fetlifers
By Wilhelmina Wang On June 27, 2011 · 3 Comments · In asshats, BDSM, Friends & Lovers, M, Uncategorized
Trigger warning: racist & sexist slurs
A chatlog? Haven’t done one of these in a while. Anyway, here is a chatlog between me and one of my (white, straight, cisgendered, male, top) friends.
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Wilhelmina: i wish random fetlifers i don’t know would stop trying to come on to me via messages
Wilhelmina: this [...]
10 reasons why I shouldn’t have had sex, but did anyway
By Wilhelmina Wang On June 21, 2011 · 23 Comments · In Friends & Lovers, kinda sorta awk, reflections, relationships, sex
As a preface, I just want to say that I expect you to realize that, obviously, I’m not trying to say that (promiscuous) sex is inherently “bad.” You can have sex for good reasons and bad reasons; you can have sex safely, or you can do it in ways that hurt yourself and others. I [...]
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