Fantasies
By Wilhelmina Wang On July 25, 2011 · 13 Comments · In BDSM, Friends & Lovers, genderfuck, journal, sex, sex fantasy, strap on sex
A random list of scenarios I’ve been fantasizing about lately.
Eiffel-towering a guy with another guy. Specifically: me and L co-topping another guy. Most likely I’d be pegging him while he’d be blowing L. Being fucked by somebody else while on the phone with L, describing what’s going on & letting him listen in. This is [...]
I’ve been doing quite a bit of rope stuff over the last few months. A new friend of mine has been giving me some rope pointers, and has also been practicing his tying and suspension skills on me.
I’ve decided that my skin gets marked up fairly easily. The marks may be a [...]
How to deal with annoying Fetlifers
By Wilhelmina Wang On June 27, 2011 · 3 Comments · In asshats, BDSM, Friends & Lovers, M, Uncategorized
Trigger warning: racist & sexist slurs
A chatlog? Haven’t done one of these in a while. Anyway, here is a chatlog between me and one of my (white, straight, cisgendered, male, top) friends.
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Wilhelmina: i wish random fetlifers i don’t know would stop trying to come on to me via messages
Wilhelmina: this [...]
A “fetishistic” set I created using Polyvore.
“Poetic Penumbra Dress” from Modcloth, “XIT” shoe from Jeffrey Campbell,
& random jewelry from everywhere.
Lately, I’ve been thinking about forms of dress and its relationship to fetishes and various BDSM practices. Anyone with a rudimentary knowledge of BDSM probably [...]
I read Salon.com fairly frequently, and have read many articles of theirs addressing feminist issues, sex politics and porn, so when I saw they’d posted an article about spanking, my interest was definitely piqued. After reading the sub-headline alone, though, I already knew I’d have lots to say about this article:
Fetishists open [...]
This probably isn’t very novel or mindblowing or even particularly interesting to read for many of you, yet I feel the need to articulate it in some way: I don’t always associate BDSM with sex.
Like I said: not a new concept. However, considering my relative newness to BDSM, it is a concept that I’ve [...]
Cunt
By Wilhelmina Wang On August 9, 2010 · 3 Comments · In domme/top, Erotica, Gender, journal, reflections
Not exactly up to par with the Vagina Monologues piece, but the word is just so perfect that I can’t not write an ode to it. Labels, in a sense, mean nothing, but they can also mean everything. Or anything.
This also appears to be part of a slightly grandiose and ridiculous trend [...]
Temple
By Wilhelmina Wang On August 5, 2010 · 20 Comments · In BDSM, bottom/object, domme/top, Erotica, journal, L, sex
I’m bracing my hand on your chest, using you for leverage in all reasonable respects. Now and again my fingers ghost towards your neck; my nails dig into the muscle that slopes down from your neck to your shoulder. I’m pulling you into me; quick and shallow and then lingeringly, so slow that you can [...]
Your body is so small and soft and smooth and milky. Like a sweet, cool dessert melting in the summer heat. I want to swallow you whole; lap and bite you all over; lick the remains off my lips, from the corner of my mouth, and slide every bit of you down my gullet.
Jitters
By Wilhelmina Wang On July 22, 2010 · 5 Comments · In angst, BDSM, domme/top, L, learning, reflections, versatile/fluid
L is coming to visit tomorrow, and I’m a little scared.
I’m also immensely excited and happy, but that doesn’t mean I can’t be scared as well, right?
L & I have explored so many things together – in every respect, but I’m focusing on sexuality, here – and the more [...]
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