I read Salon.com fairly frequently, and have read many articles of theirs addressing feminist issues, sex politics and porn, so when I saw they’d posted an article about spanking, my interest was definitely piqued. After reading the sub-headline alone, though, I already knew I’d have lots to say about this article:
Fetishists open [...]
Please, Sir (Virtual Book Tour)
By Wilhelmina Wang On May 25, 2010 · 27 Comments · In anal play, BDSM, books, bottom/object, Erotica, fiction, pain, sex fantasy, sex toy review, spanking
If you ask me, submission is an art form. It requires dedication, focus, commitment and desire, and there’s no single way of doing it. It’s about unlocking something within yourself so you can reach beyond your normal limits, exposing your body and soul in order to go somewhere you cannot get to [...]
Claiming (2/4): “Assume the position.”
By Wilhelmina Wang On November 28, 2009 · 24 Comments · In BDSM, bottom/object, cybersex, Erotica, exhibitionism & voyeurism, in retrospect, journal, long distance, sex, sex fantasy, sex in odd places, Sir, spanking, wanking
These events took place circa. October 2009. Read part 1 here.
Day #2
Two days later, on a typically doleful Monday, I was at work when Sir emailed me. He was at work, too, and was having a stressful day. He asked me if I was up to helping him “relieve [...]
Claiming (1/4): “I want to brutalize you.”
By Wilhelmina Wang On November 25, 2009 · 6 Comments · In BDSM, bottom/object, cybersex, Erotica, in retrospect, intimacy, journal, long distance, sex, Sir, spanking
These events took place circa October 2009.
Recently, I found a hot new person to play with. Well – “new” is not entirely correct. We’ve known each other for quite a while, but this is the first time he has expressed desire for me. Sure, we flirted casually [...]
Gift
By Wilhelmina Wang On November 13, 2009 · 28 Comments · In BDSM, domme/top, Erotica, in retrospect, intimacy, kinda sorta awk, sex, spanking, the Optimist
To avoid confusion, I’m adding a new category called “in retrospect” in order to differentiate posts where I’m talking about something that happened in the past, as opposed to posts where I’m talking about things that are currently happening. This post looks pretty weird juxtaposed with my last one, but what can you [...]
Lessons Learned (2/2)
By Wilhelmina Wang On September 21, 2009 · 8 Comments · In BDSM, domme/top, Erotica, journal, kinda sorta awk, spanking, the Optimist, versatile/fluid, x-posted
[via sexisnottheenemy]
Lesson #2: The Optimist
“Well, what are you doing?” you smirk as he insinuates his hand underneath your skirt and pushes hard in between your cheeks.
“This isn’t going to work if you top me topping you.”
“Right. OK. Sorry. I’ll stop.”
Blindfold. On your hands and [...]
A Story of You #4 His
By Wilhelmina Wang On September 16, 2009 · 2 Comments · In BDSM, Erotica, guest post, sex in odd places, spanking, swag
Contest entry number four by Lola Batling…
Clandestine
By Wilhelmina Wang On July 26, 2009 · 2 Comments · In BDSM, Erotica, journal, kinda sorta awk, sex fantasy, spanking, wanking
Sometimes you wonder if you only get your best ideas while you’re jerking off.
You hadn’t showered all day, and feel filthy, so you decide to take one even though your sister and her fiance are over to visit. The water heater is working properly for the first time since you’ve been home, and you’re [...]
What you do for me
By Wilhelmina Wang On January 29, 2009 · 9 Comments · In anal play, BDSM, Christopher, domme/top, Erotica, journal, sex, spanking
My imagination apparently has a mind of its own… In other news, my post On Christopher: Fragments was featured on Fleshbot’s Sex blog roundup: Caged Heat a little while ago
You’re face down on my bed. I don’t have anything to tie your wrists with, but you [...]
Mary Anne, the beautiful somnambulist
By Wilhelmina Wang On December 17, 2008 · 5 Comments · In Erotica, intimacy, journal, life, Queer, sex fantasy, sex in odd places, spanking
Flash. You’re on a ferry, and he’s with you. You’re travelling to an island. You’re going behind his girlfriend’s back. You cuddle close, close to each other on the seat, hands entwined like your bodies should be. The boat lurches forwards on the waves…
Flash. You’re sharing a shower stall with her – [...]
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