Fantasies

By On July 25, 2011 · 14 Comments · In BDSM, Friends & Lovers, genderfuck, journal, sex, sex fantasy, strap on sex

A random list of scenarios I’ve been fantasizing about lately.

Eiffel-towering a guy with another guy. Specifically: me and L co-topping another guy. Most likely I’d be pegging him while he’d be blowing L. Being fucked by somebody else while on the phone with L, describing what’s going on & letting him listen in. This is [...]

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Rope marks

By On July 7, 2011 · 8 Comments · In BDSM, M, reflections, rope

I’ve been doing quite a bit of rope stuff over the last few months. A new friend of mine has been giving me some rope pointers, and has also been practicing his tying and suspension skills on me.

I’ve decided that my skin gets marked up fairly easily. The marks may be a [...]

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How to deal with annoying Fetlifers

By On June 27, 2011 · 3 Comments · In asshats, BDSM, Friends & Lovers, M, Uncategorized

Trigger warning: racist & sexist slurs

A chatlog? Haven’t done one of these in a while. Anyway, here is a chatlog between me and one of my (white, straight, cisgendered, male, top) friends.

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Wilhelmina: i wish random fetlifers i don’t know would stop trying to come on to me via messages

Wilhelmina: this [...]

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10 reasons why I shouldn’t have had sex, but did anyway

By On June 21, 2011 · 23 Comments · In Friends & Lovers, kinda sorta awk, reflections, relationships, sex

As a preface, I just want to say that I expect you to realize that, obviously, I’m not trying to say that (promiscuous) sex is inherently “bad.” You can have sex for good reasons and bad reasons; you can have sex safely, or you can do it in ways that hurt yourself and others. I [...]

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Correspondence

By On August 25, 2010 · 2 Comments · In exhibitionism & voyeurism, guest post, L, sex

L sends some of the best emails. His words can make me swoon. Here’s one of the awesomest ones for your reading pleasure; on fucking in public at our college, among other things.

Let’s… make this legendary. There shall be a new challenge. Nous nous baiserons to an unprecedented echelon of debauchery. We will set [...]

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Review: Bend-Over Beginner Kit

By On August 20, 2010 · 8 Comments · In dildos, misc, sex toy review, sex toys, silicone, sportsheets, strap on sex, tabutoys, tantus, the Optimist

As you well know, I’m quite the strap-on aficionado, so I was really interested in trying out the Bend Over Beginner kit. It comes with (almost) everything you need for strap-on sex, and the pieces are quality, too:

- Sportsheets Vibrating Velvet Harness
– Tantus Silk [...]

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Temple

By On August 5, 2010 · 20 Comments · In BDSM, bottom/object, domme/top, Erotica, journal, L, sex

I’m bracing my hand on your chest, using you for leverage in all reasonable respects. Now and again my fingers ghost towards your neck; my nails dig into the muscle that slopes down from your neck to your shoulder. I’m pulling you into me; quick and shallow and then lingeringly, so slow that you can [...]

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Devour

By On July 27, 2010 · Leave a Comment · In domme/top, Erotica, fiction, L

Your body is so small and soft and smooth and milky. Like a sweet, cool dessert melting in the summer heat. I want to swallow you whole; lap and bite you all over; lick the remains off my lips, from the corner of my mouth, and slide every bit of you down my gullet.

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Jitters

By On July 22, 2010 · 5 Comments · In angst, BDSM, domme/top, L, learning, reflections, versatile/fluid

L is coming to visit tomorrow, and I’m a little scared.

I’m also immensely excited and happy, but that doesn’t mean I can’t be scared as well, right?

L & I have explored so many things together – in every respect, but I’m focusing on sexuality, here – and the more [...]

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Subspace

By On July 20, 2010 · 27 Comments · In anal play, BDSM, bottom/object, Erotica, journal, L, sex

I have him naked, with his ass up and his face in the pillows, red stripes down his pale back where I’d scratched him, and his wrists and ankles cuffed, each wrist connected to the corresponding ankle. I’m rummaging around in my backpack for lube and a plug. When I find what I was looking [...]

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