Review: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

By On May 19, 2010 · 10 Comments · In babeland, BDSM gear, J, sex toy review, sex toys, sportsheets

The Under the Bed Restraint System’s selling point is that it’s quick and easy to set up, and you don’t need a bed with a headboard to secure stuff to. You just need a mattress, and a bedframe. I’ve read so many glowing reviews of the Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System, [...]

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Oasis

By On April 13, 2010 · 4 Comments · In J, reflections, relationships

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So, me and J broke up.

Most of my friends (online and offline) and family have reacted with surprise, and for good reason: this all seems very sudden, but in fact it has been a slow build-up that started [...]

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Compartments

By On March 9, 2010 · Leave a Comment · In Friends & Lovers, J, reflections, relationships, the Professional, the Rationalist

Before I started dating J, I went “hunting” a lot. Often, I didn’t begin the night with that as my intention; it’s not like I went out and planned to spend my night looking for someone to bang. That’s just what I ended up doing. (Well, along with socializing and drinking and all that other [...]

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A Journey

By On January 31, 2010 · 1 Comment · In intimacy, J, life, love, reflections, relationships

We need a witness to our lives. There’s a billion people on the planet… I mean, what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you’re promising to care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things… all of it, all of the time, every [...]

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A Guiding Hand

By On December 30, 2009 · 1 Comment · In BDSM, bottom/object, Erotica, fiction, intimacy, J, sex fantasy, versatile/fluid

Hey, so, Merry Christmas (if you celebrate it) and happy holidays and such. I’ve been spending a lot of time hanging out with family and friends and such and oddly haven’t been in the mood for blogging, until now. Being apart for a month can do that to you, I guess.

I’m quite aware that [...]

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Wait, what? Really?

By On November 11, 2009 · 3 Comments · In intimacy, J, life, non-monogamy, reflections, relationships

Apologies in advance to twitter friends and other friends who I’ve been talking about this incessantly to, already. You’re probably fed up of hearing about it ^^; This will probably be the last I’ll be saying about this for now.

So… I have an announcement to make. Of sorts.

I am [...]

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