Stop with the fucking victim-blaming already.

By On July 9, 2010 · 6 Comments · In feminism, field notes, life, reflections, the Inventor

I’m not typically one to respond to other blog posts, or share my opinion on social issues here. However, a certain post just makes me too angry to not say anything; and, I suppose, unfortunately was written at the same time that I’ve been experiencing frustrations surrounding this issue in my daily life:

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Review: Spartacus Medium Tip Crop

By On May 18, 2010 · 15 Comments · In BDSM gear, leather, sex toy review, sextoy.com, spartacus, the Inventor

Yet another run-of-the-mill BDSM toy review… except, this time, the Spartacus 18″ Medium Tip Riding Crop is a keeper.

I had the same issues with this crop as I did with the other Spartacus crop I reviewed: the Wide Tip Bat:

One thing that bothered me about the tip was [...]

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Review: Tantus Vamp

By On May 17, 2010 · 19 Comments · In dildos, pinkcherry.com, sex toy review, silicone, tantus, the Inventor

I really don’t like Stephanie Meyer’s Twilight series. I tried reading the first book when I was at home during break, because I had nothing else to do and my little sister had a copy, but I got bored halfway through. I watched the first two movies, but it was only because my friends, [...]

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Presence & Acceptance

By On May 10, 2010 · 5 Comments · In BDSM, intimacy, life, reflections, relationships, the Emperor, the Inventor

… are the two things that I want the most right now, from a lover. Or from anyone I’m close to, actually.

This post is made up of edited excerpts of an email exchange I’ve been having with the Emperor. I’m just sharing it here because I’d like to see if anyone has an [...]

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26 whacks

By On April 28, 2010 · 2 Comments · In BDSM, bottom/object, Erotica, journal, long distance, pain, the Inventor

Today’s task:

Carry a small notebook with you. Keep notes of the following:

- times you crave contact
– times you see someone and want them
– times you think of pain
– drinks you take

For each instance of the above, you will paddle yourself once as follows:

– sit [...]

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Choke

By On April 26, 2010 · 4 Comments · In asphyxiation, BDSM, bottom/object, Erotica, exhibitionism & voyeurism, journal, long distance, the Inventor, wanking

Sir has been on a bit of a choking kick lately.

He’s never really mentioned choking before, but since I started subbing to him he’s brought it up quite a bit.

Today, Sir granted me two jack-off sessions. The first was while I was videochatting with him. After telling [...]

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Voice

By On April 25, 2010 · 23 Comments · In asphyxiation, BDSM, bottom/object, Erotica, fiction, long distance, sex, sex fantasy, the Inventor

This post is the result of a task Sir set me yesterday. His prompt:

I want you write a story about being fucked by me. Assume your wrists will be bound, and that I will have freedom to roll you on your knees or your back. This story should be full of explicit detail, and [...]

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Pet

By On April 22, 2010 · 7 Comments · In anal play, BDSM, bottom/object, cybersex, Erotica, journal, long distance, sexual frustration, the Inventor, wanking

It’s only been about a month since me and J broke up, and already I’m back up to my old tricks.

A few days ago, I was venting to an online friend (who I will refer to from now as the Inventor) about the breakup. He consoled me, and after a while the conversation somehow [...]

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