Review: Bend-Over Beginner Kit

By On August 20, 2010 · 8 Comments · In dildos, misc, sex toy review, sex toys, silicone, sportsheets, strap on sex, tabutoys, tantus, the Optimist

As you well know, I’m quite the strap-on aficionado, so I was really interested in trying out the Bend Over Beginner kit. It comes with (almost) everything you need for strap-on sex, and the pieces are quality, too:

- Sportsheets Vibrating Velvet Harness
– Tantus Silk [...]

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Gift

By On November 13, 2009 · 27 Comments · In BDSM, domme/top, Erotica, in retrospect, intimacy, kinda sorta awk, sex, spanking, the Optimist

To avoid confusion, I’m adding a new category called “in retrospect” in order to differentiate posts where I’m talking about something that happened in the past, as opposed to posts where I’m talking about things that are currently happening. This post looks pretty weird juxtaposed with my last one, but what can you [...]

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Rimjob

By On October 26, 2009 · 15 Comments · In anal play, Christopher, Erotica, intimacy, journal, sex, the Optimist

Not many things squick me out.

As one of my friends once said to me: I seem to have no limits. Many of the BDSM-related things I don’t want to do, I don’t want to do because I don’t know how to do them in a safe manner. Of course, I [...]

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Contest: Blogiversary Blowout

By On October 13, 2009 · Leave a Comment · In swag, the Optimist, Uncategorized

Soo… there are quite a few contests going on right now, but I either didn’t enter or didn’t try very hard if I did enter, since I’m actually pretty content with the sex toy collection I have right now (shock horror!).

But then I got it into my head that I wanted to get the [...]

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Emancipation

By On October 12, 2009 · 11 Comments · In life, reflections, the Optimist

Him: you have a problem in one place, so you’re trying to solve it by creating happiness in another place. it’s like trying to heal a broken leg by taking morphine instead of setting the bone. and you know what the problem is. you already said. i quote: i want to feel wanted, [...]

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Lessons Learned (2/2)

By On September 21, 2009 · 8 Comments · In BDSM, domme/top, Erotica, journal, kinda sorta awk, spanking, the Optimist, versatile/fluid, x-posted

[via sexisnottheenemy]

Lesson #2: The Optimist

“Well, what are you doing?” you smirk as he insinuates his hand underneath your skirt and pushes hard in between your cheeks.

“This isn’t going to work if you top me topping you.”

“Right. OK. Sorry. I’ll stop.”

Blindfold. On your hands and [...]

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