Compartments

By On March 9, 2010 · Leave a Comment · In Friends & Lovers, J, reflections, relationships, the Professional, the Rationalist

Before I started dating J, I went “hunting” a lot. Often, I didn’t begin the night with that as my intention; it’s not like I went out and planned to spend my night looking for someone to bang. That’s just what I ended up doing. (Well, along with socializing and drinking and all that other [...]

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Object of Desire

By On July 15, 2009 · 18 Comments · In Erotica, intimacy, journal, reflections, sex, the Actor, the Professional

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Kissing the Professional is akin to eating fried pork intestines. It tastes good, and you draw a large amount of satisfaction from it, but there’s an undertone of dirty wrongness about it that prevents you from enjoying it [...]

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Some ruminations on roles

By On June 25, 2009 · Leave a Comment · In BDSM, bottom/object, domme/top, Erotica, Girl, journal, K, kink identity, reflections, the Emperor, the Professional, versatile/fluid

Having more experiences with different lovers, researching a bit more about BDSM on Fetlife and starting Jay Wiseman’s “SM 101″ has lead me to start thinking about my (very, very slowly) emerging BDSM identity, again. Granted, labels are only of a very basic use here; in fact I’m highly tempted to conclude that my identity [...]

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