So… remember how I was complaining about my local kink scene?
I recently found an event listing on Fetlife about an actual kinky party (!!) that’s being organized here – pretty exciting, as we currently don’t have anything like that here at all.
The downside? The poster and announcements so far aren’t very [...]
I’ve never really been part of a “kink scene” or BDSM community before. I only started really exploring kink in college, and our campus didn’t really have that much to offer, and neither did the small American town it was in. So I guess it’s only understandable. After returning to Hong Kong, though, I had [...]
A quick update to say that I’m still here.
I haven’t posted in—wow—six months, due to a number of new changes in my life that are totally positive, but still took some time to adjust to.
That aside, I haven’t actually had all that much to write about lately; my own sexuality has more or [...]
How to deal with annoying Fetlifers
By Wilhelmina Wang On June 27, 2011 · 3 Comments · In asshats, BDSM, Friends & Lovers, M, Uncategorized
Trigger warning: racist & sexist slurs
A chatlog? Haven’t done one of these in a while. Anyway, here is a chatlog between me and one of my (white, straight, cisgendered, male, top) friends.
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Wilhelmina: i wish random fetlifers i don’t know would stop trying to come on to me via messages
Wilhelmina: this [...]
It’s sad, but true.
I was going to write a post that was more or less the opposite of the above title. A few months ago, me and L had a threesome with another guy (who I’ll call X in this post) at our college. Since our college is on the [...]
The Wonderful World of Slashfic and Yaoi, and How it Informed my Awakening Sexuality
By Wilhelmina Wang On February 22, 2011 · 10 Comments · In field notes, life, porn, reflections, sex fantasy, wanking
Or: The “Porn” I consumed as a 14-year-old.
Disclaimer: I don’t profess to be an expert on this topic. As with practically everything else on this blog, it’s all drawn from my personal experience, and the examples I’m giving are in no way representative of the fandoms as a whole, since there are [...]
Ask a BDSMer if they think strap-on sex is “kinky” and the answer is often no. Ask a “vanilla” college student the same question and the answer is almost always “yes.” That’s a telling and important difference and I urge us to honor that reality, for our own benefit, and the benefit of the sexual [...]
During my “wild” college days, one thing that bothered me about the flirting dynamic, or whatever you want to call it, was how I would say “I’m sorry, I’m not romantically/sexually interested in you” and sometimes the other person wouldn’t take me at my word.
Instead, they’d take that as an indication to try harder [...]
A little shoe porn for you. I have an unhealthy attraction to utterly ridiculous shoes. Low, sensible heels just… don’t do it for me. Maybe it stems from the fact that I’m short? Not that I’d be able to wear any of these in real life, ever, but I can dream, right?
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Just a heads-up that I have two new pages. If you want to link to me for some reason, now you have banners to do it with! Also, I recently started writing copy for two sex toy stores (fyi, this has absolutely no bearing on reviews or content that appears here), so I [...]
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