…That’s what some guy said to me when I was on the way home one day, around when I just moved to NYC. I think I responded by ignoring him and continuing on my way. Maybe I rolled my eyes. When I got home, I tweeted irritably about it on my vanilla Twitter account. One [...]
Jitters
By Wilhelmina Wang On July 22, 2010 · 5 Comments · In angst, BDSM, domme/top, L, learning, reflections, versatile/fluid
L is coming to visit tomorrow, and I’m a little scared.
I’m also immensely excited and happy, but that doesn’t mean I can’t be scared as well, right?
L & I have explored so many things together – in every respect, but I’m focusing on sexuality, here – and the more [...]
Wil: [sticks a $2.99 price tag from a purchased energy drink on L's shirt] There, now you’re $2.99.
L: So I’m a cheap slut?
Wil: You’re my cheap slut!
L: [laughs] I’d totally put that on a T-shirt and wear it. “Wilhelmina’s cheap slut.”
Wil: Next time we’re at Zeta Mu I should just write [...]
Stop with the fucking victim-blaming already.
By Wilhelmina Wang On July 9, 2010 · 6 Comments · In feminism, field notes, life, reflections, the Inventor
I’m not typically one to respond to other blog posts, or share my opinion on social issues here. However, a certain post just makes me too angry to not say anything; and, I suppose, unfortunately was written at the same time that I’ve been experiencing frustrations surrounding this issue in my daily life:
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[Graphic by Juliettia]
I’ve never really been involved with EdenFantasys, but I thought it might be beneficial for my readers to know what has been going on with them, in case you shop or write there. You might want to reconsider doing so.
If anyone has other [...]
Just a note: I’m actively looking for advertisers, so drop me a line if you’re interested & you own a sexuality-related site!
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Interested in putting up a link or banner ad? I’m currently accepting ads from all kinds of sexuality-related websites. Ads will be displayed on the sidebar on the right, and will [...]
Presence & Acceptance
By Wilhelmina Wang On May 10, 2010 · 5 Comments · In BDSM, intimacy, life, reflections, relationships, the Emperor, the Inventor
… are the two things that I want the most right now, from a lover. Or from anyone I’m close to, actually.
This post is made up of edited excerpts of an email exchange I’ve been having with the Emperor. I’m just sharing it here because I’d like to see if anyone has an [...]
Things I should have said
By Wilhelmina Wang On February 9, 2010 · 4 Comments · In feminism, life, Queer, reflections, transgender
… and wanted to say, but didn’t. Also some of this is paraphrased, clearly, because I don’t remember everything word for word.
Example #1.
Guy friends 1 + 2: *discussing a hot girl they want to have sex with, but think is really dumb*
Me: How can you have sex with someone you don’t [...]
A Journey
By Wilhelmina Wang On January 31, 2010 · 1 Comment · In intimacy, J, life, love, reflections, relationships
We need a witness to our lives. There’s a billion people on the planet… I mean, what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you’re promising to care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things… all of it, all of the time, every [...]
Wait, what? Really?
By Wilhelmina Wang On November 11, 2009 · 3 Comments · In intimacy, J, life, non-monogamy, reflections, relationships
Apologies in advance to twitter friends and other friends who I’ve been talking about this incessantly to, already. You’re probably fed up of hearing about it ^^; This will probably be the last I’ll be saying about this for now.
So… I have an announcement to make. Of sorts.
I am [...]
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