Claiming (1/4): “I want to brutalize you.”
By Wilhelmina Wang On November 25, 2009 · 6 Comments · In BDSM, bottom/object, cybersex, Erotica, in retrospect, intimacy, journal, long distance, sex, Sir, spanking
These events took place circa October 2009.
Recently, I found a hot new person to play with. Well – “new” is not entirely correct. We’ve known each other for quite a while, but this is the first time he has expressed desire for me. Sure, we flirted casually [...]
Gift
By Wilhelmina Wang On November 13, 2009 · 28 Comments · In BDSM, domme/top, Erotica, in retrospect, intimacy, kinda sorta awk, sex, spanking, the Optimist
To avoid confusion, I’m adding a new category called “in retrospect” in order to differentiate posts where I’m talking about something that happened in the past, as opposed to posts where I’m talking about things that are currently happening. This post looks pretty weird juxtaposed with my last one, but what can you [...]
Rimjob
By Wilhelmina Wang On October 26, 2009 · 15 Comments · In anal play, Christopher, Erotica, intimacy, journal, sex, the Optimist
Not many things squick me out.
As one of my friends once said to me: I seem to have no limits. Many of the BDSM-related things I don’t want to do, I don’t want to do because I don’t know how to do them in a safe manner. Of course, I [...]
Lessons Learned (2/2)
By Wilhelmina Wang On September 21, 2009 · 8 Comments · In BDSM, domme/top, Erotica, journal, kinda sorta awk, spanking, the Optimist, versatile/fluid, x-posted
[via sexisnottheenemy]
Lesson #2: The Optimist
“Well, what are you doing?” you smirk as he insinuates his hand underneath your skirt and pushes hard in between your cheeks.
“This isn’t going to work if you top me topping you.”
“Right. OK. Sorry. I’ll stop.”
Blindfold. On your hands and [...]
Lessons Learned (1/2)
By Wilhelmina Wang On September 13, 2009 · 3 Comments · In anal play, Erotica, journal, kinda sorta awk, sex, strap on sex, the Actor, x-posted
Btw, a big thank you to Champagne and Benzedrine for putting my last HNT on his sexiest posts list
[via bendoverboyfriend]
Lesson #1: The Actor
For once, height difference does matter.
His long legs are draped loosely [...]
Peace & Passion
By Wilhelmina Wang On September 1, 2009 · 2 Comments · In BDSM, domme/top, Erotica, journal, reflections, sex fantasy, x-posted
[Photo via Mistress Sade]
Last night, I came across a couple of very sexy pictures.
They were black and white pictures of a beautiful naked man in bondage. Leather straps around the chest and legs, collar, cuffs, cock & ball harness, the works. [...]
Goddess (Valkyrie): 1/2
By Wilhelmina Wang On August 9, 2009 · Leave a Comment · In drunk, Erotica, frat life, Girl, journal, kinda sorta awk, Queer, relationships, the Emperor
You’ve known her for more than half a year; and you’ve slept with almost everyone who you’ve seen in her immediate vicinity by now. Well, not everyone, but it feels like it. These were people who you weren’t not attracted to, but they didn’t drive you particularly crazy, [...]
Clandestine
By Wilhelmina Wang On July 26, 2009 · 2 Comments · In BDSM, Erotica, journal, kinda sorta awk, sex fantasy, spanking, wanking
Sometimes you wonder if you only get your best ideas while you’re jerking off.
You hadn’t showered all day, and feel filthy, so you decide to take one even though your sister and her fiance are over to visit. The water heater is working properly for the first time since you’ve been home, and you’re [...]
Object of Desire
By Wilhelmina Wang On July 15, 2009 · 18 Comments · In Erotica, intimacy, journal, reflections, sex, the Actor, the Professional
[Image from The Sandman. Click here to view full comic page.]
Kissing the Professional is akin to eating fried pork intestines. It tastes good, and you draw a large amount of satisfaction from it, but there’s an undertone of dirty wrongness about it that prevents you from enjoying it [...]
Some ruminations on roles
By Wilhelmina Wang On June 25, 2009 · Leave a Comment · In BDSM, bottom/object, domme/top, Erotica, Girl, journal, K, kink identity, reflections, the Emperor, the Professional, versatile/fluid
Having more experiences with different lovers, researching a bit more about BDSM on Fetlife and starting Jay Wiseman’s “SM 101″ has lead me to start thinking about my (very, very slowly) emerging BDSM identity, again. Granted, labels are only of a very basic use here; in fact I’m highly tempted to conclude that my identity [...]
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