Claiming (4/4): A Postscript on Power

By On April 21, 2010 · 1 Comment · In BDSM, bottom/object, in retrospect, intimacy, reflections, relationships, sex, Sir

This is a series I started a while ago, around October 2009, but never finished. It’s kind of stale now so I don’t want to continue it. I wrote this post as a planned ending, and I’m posting it now because I think it’s important for me to say it, though I didn’t [...]

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Claiming (3/4): “Go pantiless after.”

By On January 19, 2010 · 29 Comments · In BDSM, bottom/object, Erotica, in retrospect, journal, long distance, relationships, sex, sex in odd places, Sir, wanking

I suppose I should finish what I started… wrote most of this a while ago.

These events occurred circa. October 2009. Read part 1 and part 2.

[via Maria's Photo]

Day #2, continued.

The first thing he wanted to do was make use of me [...]

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A Guiding Hand

By On December 30, 2009 · 1 Comment · In BDSM, bottom/object, Erotica, fiction, intimacy, J, sex fantasy, versatile/fluid

Hey, so, Merry Christmas (if you celebrate it) and happy holidays and such. I’ve been spending a lot of time hanging out with family and friends and such and oddly haven’t been in the mood for blogging, until now. Being apart for a month can do that to you, I guess.

I’m quite aware that [...]

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Claiming (2/4): “Assume the position.”

By On November 28, 2009 · 24 Comments · In BDSM, bottom/object, cybersex, Erotica, exhibitionism & voyeurism, in retrospect, journal, long distance, sex, sex fantasy, sex in odd places, Sir, spanking, wanking

These events took place circa. October 2009. Read part 1 here.

Day #2

Two days later, on a typically doleful Monday, I was at work when Sir emailed me. He was at work, too, and was having a stressful day. He asked me if I was up to helping him “relieve [...]

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Claiming (1/4): “I want to brutalize you.”

By On November 25, 2009 · 6 Comments · In BDSM, bottom/object, cybersex, Erotica, in retrospect, intimacy, journal, long distance, sex, Sir, spanking

These events took place circa October 2009.

Recently, I found a hot new person to play with. Well – “new” is not entirely correct. We’ve known each other for quite a while, but this is the first time he has expressed desire for me. Sure, we flirted casually [...]

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Gift

By On November 13, 2009 · 28 Comments · In BDSM, domme/top, Erotica, in retrospect, intimacy, kinda sorta awk, sex, spanking, the Optimist

To avoid confusion, I’m adding a new category called “in retrospect” in order to differentiate posts where I’m talking about something that happened in the past, as opposed to posts where I’m talking about things that are currently happening. This post looks pretty weird juxtaposed with my last one, but what can you [...]

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Rimjob

By On October 26, 2009 · 15 Comments · In anal play, Christopher, Erotica, intimacy, journal, sex, the Optimist

Not many things squick me out.

As one of my friends once said to me: I seem to have no limits. Many of the BDSM-related things I don’t want to do, I don’t want to do because I don’t know how to do them in a safe manner. Of course, I [...]

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Thing

By On September 25, 2009 · 4 Comments · In BDSM, bottom/object, Erotica, fiction, intimacy, sex, x-posted

She is tied to the bed. Arms over her head; legs pushed up and back, naked. She’s almost folded in half.

No, not ‘she.’ ‘It.’ He is calling her ‘it.’ Or ‘this.’

Her eyelids flicker open and shut, eyelashes brushing against the blindfold. Tongue curling against the bit between her teeth.

Her [...]

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Lessons Learned (2/2)

By On September 21, 2009 · 8 Comments · In BDSM, domme/top, Erotica, journal, kinda sorta awk, spanking, the Optimist, versatile/fluid, x-posted

[via sexisnottheenemy]

Lesson #2: The Optimist

“Well, what are you doing?” you smirk as he insinuates his hand underneath your skirt and pushes hard in between your cheeks.

“This isn’t going to work if you top me topping you.”

“Right. OK. Sorry. I’ll stop.”

Blindfold. On your hands and [...]

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A Story of You #10 My First

By On September 21, 2009 · 1 Comment · In BDSM, Erotica, guest post, relationships, sex

The tenth and last entry to my anniversary contest, by Allie Coquelicot!

10. My First

I’m not really sure how it happened. Each day spent [...]

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