I’ve been doing quite a bit of rope stuff over the last few months. A new friend of mine has been giving me some rope pointers, and has also been practicing his tying and suspension skills on me.
I’ve decided that my skin gets marked up fairly easily. The marks may be a [...]
As a preface, I just want to say that I expect you to realize that, obviously, I’m not trying to say that (promiscuous) sex is inherently “bad.” You can have sex for good reasons and bad reasons; you can have sex safely, or you can do it in ways that hurt yourself and others. I [...]
I know that I’m poly, to some level.
I call myself “theoretically polyamorous,” as in, I know that I’m capable of being being attracted to or in love with multiple people at once, but I don’t put it into practice in my life, i.e. in a practical sense, I am monogamous.
A “fetishistic” set I created using Polyvore.
“Poetic Penumbra Dress” from Modcloth, “XIT” shoe from Jeffrey Campbell,
& random jewelry from everywhere.
Lately, I’ve been thinking about forms of dress and its relationship to fetishes and various BDSM practices. Anyone with a rudimentary knowledge of BDSM probably [...]
It’s sad, but true.
I was going to write a post that was more or less the opposite of the above title. A few months ago, me and L had a threesome with another guy (who I’ll call X in this post) at our college. Since our college is on the [...]
I read Salon.com fairly frequently, and have read many articles of theirs addressing feminist issues, sex politics and porn, so when I saw they’d posted an article about spanking, my interest was definitely piqued. After reading the sub-headline alone, though, I already knew I’d have lots to say about this article:
Fetishists open [...]
Porn and sex work will always exist; why not stake a claim in it and work to create more liberties and spaces for our own representations? As Annie Sprinkle has said, “The Answer to bad porn isn’t no porn… it’s to try and make better porn!” (And for me, [...]
Or: The “Porn” I consumed as a 14-year-old.
Disclaimer: I don’t profess to be an expert on this topic. As with practically everything else on this blog, it’s all drawn from my personal experience, and the examples I’m giving are in no way representative of the fandoms as a whole, since there are [...]
This probably isn’t very novel or mindblowing or even particularly interesting to read for many of you, yet I feel the need to articulate it in some way: I don’t always associate BDSM with sex.
Like I said: not a new concept. However, considering my relative newness to BDSM, it is a concept that I’ve [...]
During my “wild” college days, one thing that bothered me about the flirting dynamic, or whatever you want to call it, was how I would say “I’m sorry, I’m not romantically/sexually interested in you” and sometimes the other person wouldn’t take me at my word.
Instead, they’d take that as an indication to try harder [...]
- Lily: I remember when we first opened our relationship. It was my idea, and I really, really wanted my partner to go...
- Deutsch frauen: Well, we glad you’ve came back. Any who had have a blog, knows that in several years you have...
- Potomacker: As long as you keep writing, I’ll keep reading.
- Rainieha: I really wonder why some people use sex toys. Is there a big difference with human sex organ than this?How...
- Wilhelmina Wang: good to hear there are people still keeping track of me! ^^;