Cunt
By Wilhelmina Wang On August 9, 2010 · 3 Comments · In domme/top, Erotica, Gender, journal, reflections
Not exactly up to par with the Vagina Monologues piece, but the word is just so perfect that I can’t not write an ode to it. Labels, in a sense, mean nothing, but they can also mean everything. Or anything.
This also appears to be part of a slightly grandiose and ridiculous trend [...]
Jitters
By Wilhelmina Wang On July 22, 2010 · 5 Comments · In angst, BDSM, domme/top, L, learning, reflections, versatile/fluid
L is coming to visit tomorrow, and I’m a little scared.
I’m also immensely excited and happy, but that doesn’t mean I can’t be scared as well, right?
L & I have explored so many things together – in every respect, but I’m focusing on sexuality, here – and the more [...]
Stop with the fucking victim-blaming already.
By Wilhelmina Wang On July 9, 2010 · 6 Comments · In feminism, field notes, life, reflections, the Inventor
I’m not typically one to respond to other blog posts, or share my opinion on social issues here. However, a certain post just makes me too angry to not say anything; and, I suppose, unfortunately was written at the same time that I’ve been experiencing frustrations surrounding this issue in my daily life:
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Gravitation
By Wilhelmina Wang On May 23, 2010 · Leave a Comment · In intimacy, love, reflections, relationships
[via My Lonely Hearts Club]
gravitation. n. movement, or tendency to move, toward a center of attractive force, as in the falling of bodies to the earth.
It doesn’t have to take more than a glance. You can tell almost immediately. Not love [...]
Presence & Acceptance
By Wilhelmina Wang On May 10, 2010 · 5 Comments · In BDSM, intimacy, life, reflections, relationships, the Emperor, the Inventor
… are the two things that I want the most right now, from a lover. Or from anyone I’m close to, actually.
This post is made up of edited excerpts of an email exchange I’ve been having with the Emperor. I’m just sharing it here because I’d like to see if anyone has an [...]
Claiming (4/4): A Postscript on Power
By Wilhelmina Wang On April 21, 2010 · 1 Comment · In BDSM, bottom/object, in retrospect, intimacy, reflections, relationships, sex, Sir
This is a series I started a while ago, around October 2009, but never finished. It’s kind of stale now so I don’t want to continue it. I wrote this post as a planned ending, and I’m posting it now because I think it’s important for me to say it, though I didn’t [...]
So, me and J broke up.
Most of my friends (online and offline) and family have reacted with surprise, and for good reason: this all seems very sudden, but in fact it has been a slow build-up that started [...]
Compartments
By Wilhelmina Wang On March 9, 2010 · Leave a Comment · In Friends & Lovers, J, reflections, relationships, the Professional, the Rationalist
Before I started dating J, I went “hunting” a lot. Often, I didn’t begin the night with that as my intention; it’s not like I went out and planned to spend my night looking for someone to bang. That’s just what I ended up doing. (Well, along with socializing and drinking and all that other [...]
Things I should have said
By Wilhelmina Wang On February 9, 2010 · 4 Comments · In feminism, life, Queer, reflections, transgender
… and wanted to say, but didn’t. Also some of this is paraphrased, clearly, because I don’t remember everything word for word.
Example #1.
Guy friends 1 + 2: *discussing a hot girl they want to have sex with, but think is really dumb*
Me: How can you have sex with someone you don’t [...]
A Journey
By Wilhelmina Wang On January 31, 2010 · 1 Comment · In intimacy, J, life, love, reflections, relationships
We need a witness to our lives. There’s a billion people on the planet… I mean, what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you’re promising to care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things… all of it, all of the time, every [...]
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