Cock

By On May 7, 2009 · 25 Comments · In Gender, genderfuck, Queer, queer identity, reflections, strap on sex, the Actor

Almost a year ago now (!), the Actor wanted me to fuck him with a strap-on. So he offered to buy me one. We cheerfully bounced onto Babeland.com and he ordered me the awesome Jaguar harness + Leo dildo set.

I only had strap-on sex with him once before he left. [...]

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Grrr

By On April 24, 2009 · 5 Comments · In femme invisibility, Queer, queer identity, reflections

“You’re bisexual? Really? You don’t seem like the type.”

“Are you sure you aren’t straight?”

“Your friend doesn’t trip my gaydar at all. She must not be gay after all.”

“Well, you’ve never actually been with girls, you’ve been with trans-men. You’re like… an androgyny-phile, not exactly bisexual.”

“Wait, so do you make out with [...]

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Wait, what am I coming out as?

By On April 16, 2009 · 4 Comments · In femme invisibility, Queer, queer identity, reflections, S

Bleh. I haven’t updated for ages, I know. I really wanted to update this blog 3-4 times a week, but that really isn’t going to happen and have to just accept that. For the past few weeks I’ve been applying to internships for the summer, and just set up a vanilla blog about… everything else [...]

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HNT: Heels and Androfemmeinity

By On February 13, 2009 · 15 Comments · In body image, fashion, femme, Gender, genderfuck, HNT, Queer, queer identity, Uncategorized

I love wearing heels.

I love how they make my legs look shapelier and I feel ten times sexier. And red heels? Twice as good. Unfortunately I can’t wear them for more than a few hours at a time because my feet get sore…

Towards the end of last term I [...]

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Identifying as Queer

By On December 14, 2008 · 11 Comments · In Gender, Queer, queer identity, reflections

Note: No HNT for a couple of weeks; the internet in my room doesn’t work and I don’t exactly want to upload questionable pictures of myself in the dorm’s public computer room But once term ends and I’m home, all should be well.

Lately I’ve noticed that I frequently use the term ‘queer’ to describe [...]

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Coming into Queerness – Beginnings

By On September 5, 2008 · 6 Comments · In drunk, Erotica, frat life, Gender, journal, K, Queer, queer identity, transgender

What I’m experiencing now, in the West Indies, is very different to what I experienced this summer. Summer was amazing. I drunk-rushed Zeta Mu (an extremely queer co-ed fraternity), and everything was one big roller-coaster ride after that.

My summer was the queerest and most sexually mind-boggling than the entire rest of my life put [...]

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