10 reasons why I shouldn’t have had sex, but did anyway
By Wilhelmina Wang On June 21, 2011 · 23 Comments · In Friends & Lovers, kinda sorta awk, reflections, relationships, sex
As a preface, I just want to say that I expect you to realize that, obviously, I’m not trying to say that (promiscuous) sex is inherently “bad.” You can have sex for good reasons and bad reasons; you can have sex safely, or you can do it in ways that hurt yourself and others. I [...]
I know that I’m poly, to some level.
I call myself “theoretically polyamorous,” as in, I know that I’m capable of being being attracted to or in love with multiple people at once, but I don’t put it into practice in my life, i.e. in a practical sense, I am monogamous.
[...]
This probably isn’t very novel or mindblowing or even particularly interesting to read for many of you, yet I feel the need to articulate it in some way: I don’t always associate BDSM with sex.
Like I said: not a new concept. However, considering my relative newness to BDSM, it is a concept that I’ve [...]
Wil: [sticks a $2.99 price tag from a purchased energy drink on L's shirt] There, now you’re $2.99.
L: So I’m a cheap slut?
Wil: You’re my cheap slut!
L: [laughs] I’d totally put that on a T-shirt and wear it. “Wilhelmina’s cheap slut.”
Wil: Next time we’re at Zeta Mu I should just write [...]
Gravitation
By Wilhelmina Wang On May 23, 2010 · Leave a Comment · In intimacy, love, reflections, relationships
[via My Lonely Hearts Club]
gravitation. n. movement, or tendency to move, toward a center of attractive force, as in the falling of bodies to the earth.
It doesn’t have to take more than a glance. You can tell almost immediately. Not love [...]
Presence & Acceptance
By Wilhelmina Wang On May 10, 2010 · 5 Comments · In BDSM, intimacy, life, reflections, relationships, the Emperor, the Inventor
… are the two things that I want the most right now, from a lover. Or from anyone I’m close to, actually.
This post is made up of edited excerpts of an email exchange I’ve been having with the Emperor. I’m just sharing it here because I’d like to see if anyone has an [...]
26 whacks
By Wilhelmina Wang On April 28, 2010 · 2 Comments · In BDSM, bottom/object, Erotica, journal, long distance, pain, the Inventor
Today’s task:
Carry a small notebook with you. Keep notes of the following:
- times you crave contact
– times you see someone and want them
– times you think of pain
– drinks you take
For each instance of the above, you will paddle yourself once as follows:
– sit [...]
Choke
By Wilhelmina Wang On April 26, 2010 · 4 Comments · In asphyxiation, BDSM, bottom/object, Erotica, exhibitionism & voyeurism, journal, long distance, the Inventor, wanking
Sir has been on a bit of a choking kick lately.
He’s never really mentioned choking before, but since I started subbing to him he’s brought it up quite a bit.
Today, Sir granted me two jack-off sessions. The first was while I was videochatting with him. After telling [...]
Voice
By Wilhelmina Wang On April 25, 2010 · 23 Comments · In asphyxiation, BDSM, bottom/object, Erotica, fiction, long distance, sex, sex fantasy, the Inventor
This post is the result of a task Sir set me yesterday. His prompt:
I want you write a story about being fucked by me. Assume your wrists will be bound, and that I will have freedom to roll you on your knees or your back. This story should be full of explicit detail, and [...]
Pet
By Wilhelmina Wang On April 22, 2010 · 7 Comments · In anal play, BDSM, bottom/object, cybersex, Erotica, journal, long distance, sexual frustration, the Inventor, wanking
It’s only been about a month since me and J broke up, and already I’m back up to my old tricks.
A few days ago, I was venting to an online friend (who I will refer to from now as the Inventor) about the breakup. He consoled me, and after a while the conversation somehow [...]
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