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Gravitation

By Wilhelmina Wang On May 23, 2010 · Leave a Comment · In intimacy, love, reflections, relationships

gravitation. n. movement, or tendency to move, toward a center of attractive force, as in the falling of bodies to the earth.

It doesn’t have to take more than a glance. You can tell almost immediately. Not love [...]

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Presence & Acceptance

By Wilhelmina Wang On May 10, 2010 · 5 Comments · In BDSM, intimacy, life, reflections, relationships, the Emperor, the Inventor

… are the two things that I want the most right now, from a lover. Or from anyone I’m close to, actually.

This post is made up of edited excerpts of an email exchange I’ve been having with the Emperor. I’m just sharing it here because I’d like to see if anyone has an [...]

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Claiming (4/4): A Postscript on Power

By Wilhelmina Wang On April 21, 2010 · 1 Comment · In BDSM, bottom/object, in retrospect, intimacy, reflections, relationships, sex, Sir

This is a series I started a while ago, around October 2009, but never finished. It’s kind of stale now so I don’t want to continue it. I wrote this post as a planned ending, and I’m posting it now because I think it’s important for me to say it, though I didn’t [...]

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A Journey

By Wilhelmina Wang On January 31, 2010 · 1 Comment · In intimacy, J, life, love, reflections, relationships

We need a witness to our lives. There’s a billion people on the planet… I mean, what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you’re promising to care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things… all of it, all of the time, every [...]

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A Guiding Hand

By Wilhelmina Wang On December 30, 2009 · 1 Comment · In BDSM, bottom/object, Erotica, fiction, intimacy, J, sex fantasy, versatile/fluid

Hey, so, Merry Christmas (if you celebrate it) and happy holidays and such. I’ve been spending a lot of time hanging out with family and friends and such and oddly haven’t been in the mood for blogging, until now. Being apart for a month can do that to you, I guess.

I’m quite aware that [...]

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Claiming (1/4): “I want to brutalize you.”

By Wilhelmina Wang On November 25, 2009 · 6 Comments · In BDSM, bottom/object, cybersex, Erotica, in retrospect, intimacy, journal, long distance, sex, Sir, spanking

These events took place circa October 2009.

Recently, I found a hot new person to play with. Well – “new” is not entirely correct. We’ve known each other for quite a while, but this is the first time he has expressed desire for me. Sure, we flirted casually [...]

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Gift

By Wilhelmina Wang On November 13, 2009 · 27 Comments · In BDSM, domme/top, Erotica, in retrospect, intimacy, kinda sorta awk, sex, spanking, the Optimist

To avoid confusion, I’m adding a new category called “in retrospect” in order to differentiate posts where I’m talking about something that happened in the past, as opposed to posts where I’m talking about things that are currently happening. This post looks pretty weird juxtaposed with my last one, but what can you [...]

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Wait, what? Really?

By Wilhelmina Wang On November 11, 2009 · 3 Comments · In intimacy, J, life, non-monogamy, reflections, relationships

Apologies in advance to twitter friends and other friends who I’ve been talking about this incessantly to, already. You’re probably fed up of hearing about it ^^; This will probably be the last I’ll be saying about this for now.

So… I have an announcement to make. Of sorts.

I am [...]

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Rimjob

By Wilhelmina Wang On October 26, 2009 · 15 Comments · In anal play, Christopher, Erotica, intimacy, journal, sex, the Optimist

Not many things squick me out.

As one of my friends once said to me: I seem to have no limits. Many of the BDSM-related things I don’t want to do, I don’t want to do because I don’t know how to do them in a safe manner. Of course, I [...]

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