Porn and sex work will always exist; why not stake a claim in it and work to create more liberties and spaces for our own representations? As Annie Sprinkle has said, “The Answer to bad porn isn’t no porn… it’s to try and make better porn!” (And for me, [...]
The Wonderful World of Slashfic and Yaoi, and How it Informed my Awakening Sexuality
Or: The “Porn” I consumed as a 14-year-old.
Disclaimer: I don’t profess to be an expert on this topic. As with practically everything else on this blog, it’s all drawn from my personal experience, and the examples I’m giving are in no way representative of the fandoms as a whole, since there are [...]
Today – 02/22 – is Lady Porn Day! The wonderful Rabbit White has put together a blogosphere-wide carnival to get some discussions going about women and their relationships with porn. Taken from Rabbit’s blog:
February 22nd is officially Lady Porn Day, a day about exploring porn and masturbation. Because [...]
I’ve heard nothing but good things about the Crash Pad Series. I’d also been hankering after some queer porn. Tristan Taormino is great and all, but I was ready for something a little less hetero-centric. And Crash Pad Series Vol. 5: The Revolving Door, is definitely not hetero-centric. Like, at all.
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If you’re interested in trying bondage for the first time, but have trouble even tying a square knot correctly (like me), you’d be relieved to know that you don’t have to become a Master Rope Rigger to do bondage. Midori’s Expert Guide to Sensual Bondage, from
Review: Bend Over Boyfriend
I was looking forward to reviewing Carol Queen’s Bend Over Boyfriend DVD from Babeland.com both because of my interest in strap-on sex, and because I’ve been interested in seeing more of Carol Queen‘s work.
Bend Over Boyfriend is a part instructional, [...]
I’ve heard a lot of good things about director & writer Tristan Taormino. Feminist porn? Award winning guide to anal sex? I’m so there! And after reading Epiphora’s review of “Rough Sex,” I’ve really been hankering to watch some of her work. So imagine my joy to find out that [...]
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