Fantasies

By On July 25, 2011 · 13 Comments · In BDSM, Friends & Lovers, genderfuck, journal, sex, sex fantasy, strap on sex

A random list of scenarios I’ve been fantasizing about lately.

Eiffel-towering a guy with another guy. Specifically: me and L co-topping another guy. Most likely I’d be pegging him while he’d be blowing L. Being fucked by somebody else while on the phone with L, describing what’s going on & letting him listen in. This is [...]

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10 reasons why I shouldn’t have had sex, but did anyway

By On June 21, 2011 · 21 Comments · In Friends & Lovers, kinda sorta awk, reflections, relationships, sex

As a preface, I just want to say that I expect you to realize that, obviously, I’m not trying to say that (promiscuous) sex is inherently “bad.” You can have sex for good reasons and bad reasons; you can have sex safely, or you can do it in ways that hurt yourself and others. I [...]

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I’m not comfortable talking about sexuality in a public forum.

By On April 6, 2011 · 5 Comments · In life, reflections, sex

It’s sad, but true.

I was going to write a post that was more or less the opposite of the above title. A few months ago, me and L had a threesome with another guy (who I’ll call X in this post) at our college. Since our college is on the [...]

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The Wonderful World of Slashfic and Yaoi, and How it Informed my Awakening Sexuality

By On February 22, 2011 · 10 Comments · In field notes, life, porn, reflections, sex fantasy, wanking

Or: The “Porn” I consumed as a 14-year-old.

Disclaimer: I don’t profess to be an expert on this topic. As with practically everything else on this blog, it’s all drawn from my personal experience, and the examples I’m giving are in no way representative of the fandoms as a whole, since there are [...]

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Correspondence

By On August 25, 2010 · 2 Comments · In exhibitionism & voyeurism, guest post, L, sex

L sends some of the best emails. His words can make me swoon. Here’s one of the awesomest ones for your reading pleasure; on fucking in public at our college, among other things.

Let’s… make this legendary. There shall be a new challenge. Nous nous baiserons to an unprecedented echelon of debauchery. We will set [...]

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Review: Bend-Over Beginner Kit

By On August 20, 2010 · 8 Comments · In dildos, misc, sex toy review, sex toys, silicone, sportsheets, strap on sex, tabutoys, tantus, the Optimist

As you well know, I’m quite the strap-on aficionado, so I was really interested in trying out the Bend Over Beginner kit. It comes with (almost) everything you need for strap-on sex, and the pieces are quality, too:

- Sportsheets Vibrating Velvet Harness
– Tantus Silk [...]

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Temple

By On August 5, 2010 · 20 Comments · In BDSM, bottom/object, domme/top, Erotica, journal, L, sex

I’m bracing my hand on your chest, using you for leverage in all reasonable respects. Now and again my fingers ghost towards your neck; my nails dig into the muscle that slopes down from your neck to your shoulder. I’m pulling you into me; quick and shallow and then lingeringly, so slow that you can [...]

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Subspace

By On July 20, 2010 · 27 Comments · In anal play, BDSM, bottom/object, Erotica, journal, L, sex

I have him naked, with his ass up and his face in the pillows, red stripes down his pale back where I’d scratched him, and his wrists and ankles cuffed, each wrist connected to the corresponding ankle. I’m rummaging around in my backpack for lube and a plug. When I find what I was looking [...]

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Review: Lelo Bob

By On July 13, 2010 · 9 Comments · In anal play, anal toys, L, lelo, sex toy review, silicone, vibrator.com

When I first held the Lelo Bob in my hands, I knew we were not meant to be… because the toy had been mailed to me to use as a prize in a contest I was holding. Nevertheless, I had carefully snuck a peak into the box, and I liked what [...]

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Please, Sir (Virtual Book Tour)

By On May 25, 2010 · 27 Comments · In anal play, BDSM, books, bottom/object, Erotica, fiction, pain, sex fantasy, sex toy review, spanking


If you ask me, submission is an art form. It requires dedication, focus, commitment and desire, and there’s no single way of doing it. It’s about unlocking something within yourself so you can reach beyond your normal limits, exposing your body and soul in order to go somewhere you cannot get to [...]

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