Subspace

By On July 20, 2010 · 27 Comments · In anal play, BDSM, bottom/object, Erotica, journal, L, sex

I have him naked, with his ass up and his face in the pillows, red stripes down his pale back where I’d scratched him, and his wrists and ankles cuffed, each wrist connected to the corresponding ankle. I’m rummaging around in my backpack for lube and a plug. When I find what I was looking [...]

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Review: Lelo Bob

By On July 13, 2010 · 9 Comments · In anal play, anal toys, L, lelo, sex toy review, silicone, vibrator.com

When I first held the Lelo Bob in my hands, I knew we were not meant to be… because the toy had been mailed to me to use as a prize in a contest I was holding. Nevertheless, I had carefully snuck a peak into the box, and I liked what [...]

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Please, Sir (Virtual Book Tour)

By On May 25, 2010 · 27 Comments · In anal play, BDSM, books, bottom/object, Erotica, fiction, pain, sex fantasy, sex toy review, spanking


If you ask me, submission is an art form. It requires dedication, focus, commitment and desire, and there’s no single way of doing it. It’s about unlocking something within yourself so you can reach beyond your normal limits, exposing your body and soul in order to go somewhere you cannot get to [...]

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Pet

By On April 22, 2010 · 7 Comments · In anal play, BDSM, bottom/object, cybersex, Erotica, journal, long distance, sexual frustration, the Inventor, wanking

It’s only been about a month since me and J broke up, and already I’m back up to my old tricks.

A few days ago, I was venting to an online friend (who I will refer to from now as the Inventor) about the breakup. He consoled me, and after a while the conversation somehow [...]

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Review: Bend Over Boyfriend

By On December 20, 2009 · 16 Comments · In anal play, babeland, porn, sex toy review, strap on sex

I was looking forward to reviewing Carol Queen’s Bend Over Boyfriend DVD from Babeland.com both because of my interest in strap-on sex, and because I’ve been interested in seeing more of Carol Queen‘s work.

Bend Over Boyfriend is a part instructional, [...]

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Review: Tantus Curve

By On December 12, 2009 · 21 Comments · In anal play, dildos, sex, sex toy review, silicone, tabutoys, tantus, wanking

The Tantus Curve is the first Tantus dildo made with a wider base, designed for a better fit in a harness. Ever since I heard about it, I’ve been hankering to try it. Luckily for me, TabuToys sent me one to review

For those who [...]

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Rimjob

By On October 26, 2009 · 15 Comments · In anal play, Christopher, Erotica, intimacy, journal, sex, the Optimist

Not many things squick me out.

As one of my friends once said to me: I seem to have no limits. Many of the BDSM-related things I don’t want to do, I don’t want to do because I don’t know how to do them in a safe manner. Of course, I [...]

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A Story of You #7 The First Time I Gave Up…

By On September 18, 2009 · 1 Comment · In anal play, Erotica, guest post, sex, swag

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Lessons Learned (1/2)

By On September 13, 2009 · 3 Comments · In anal play, Erotica, journal, kinda sorta awk, sex, strap on sex, the Actor, x-posted

Btw, a big thank you to Champagne and Benzedrine for putting my last HNT on his sexiest posts list

[via bendoverboyfriend]

Lesson #1: The Actor

For once, height difference does matter.

His long legs are draped loosely [...]

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Review: Tantus Severin Medium

By On September 3, 2009 · 6 Comments · In anal play, anal toys, pinkcherry.com, sex toy review, sex toys, silicone, tantus, the Actor

I love Tantus products. I wouldn’t hesitate for one second before recommending one to anyone; no matter what orientation, size, gender, or whatever. I think anyone could find a Tantus toy they would love.

That said, I wouldn’t recommend the Tantus Severin Medium, courtesy of PinkCherry.com sex toys, [...]

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