10 reasons why I shouldn’t have had sex, but did anyway

By On June 21, 2011 · 23 Comments · In Friends & Lovers, kinda sorta awk, reflections, relationships, sex

As a preface, I just want to say that I expect you to realize that, obviously, I’m not trying to say that (promiscuous) sex is inherently “bad.” You can have sex for good reasons and bad reasons; you can have sex safely, or you can do it in ways that hurt yourself and others. I [...]

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Gift

By On November 13, 2009 · 28 Comments · In BDSM, domme/top, Erotica, in retrospect, intimacy, kinda sorta awk, sex, spanking, the Optimist

To avoid confusion, I’m adding a new category called “in retrospect” in order to differentiate posts where I’m talking about something that happened in the past, as opposed to posts where I’m talking about things that are currently happening. This post looks pretty weird juxtaposed with my last one, but what can you [...]

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Lessons Learned (2/2)

By On September 21, 2009 · 8 Comments · In BDSM, domme/top, Erotica, journal, kinda sorta awk, spanking, the Optimist, versatile/fluid, x-posted

[via sexisnottheenemy]

Lesson #2: The Optimist

“Well, what are you doing?” you smirk as he insinuates his hand underneath your skirt and pushes hard in between your cheeks.

“This isn’t going to work if you top me topping you.”

“Right. OK. Sorry. I’ll stop.”

Blindfold. On your hands and [...]

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Lessons Learned (1/2)

By On September 13, 2009 · 3 Comments · In anal play, Erotica, journal, kinda sorta awk, sex, strap on sex, the Actor, x-posted

Btw, a big thank you to Champagne and Benzedrine for putting my last HNT on his sexiest posts list

[via bendoverboyfriend]

Lesson #1: The Actor

For once, height difference does matter.

His long legs are draped loosely [...]

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Goddess (Valkyrie): 1/2

By On August 9, 2009 · Leave a Comment · In drunk, Erotica, frat life, Girl, journal, kinda sorta awk, Queer, relationships, the Emperor

[Press Play]

You’ve known her for more than half a year; and you’ve slept with almost everyone who you’ve seen in her immediate vicinity by now. Well, not everyone, but it feels like it. These were people who you weren’t not attracted to, but they didn’t drive you particularly crazy, [...]

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Clandestine

By On July 26, 2009 · 2 Comments · In BDSM, Erotica, journal, kinda sorta awk, sex fantasy, spanking, wanking

Sometimes you wonder if you only get your best ideas while you’re jerking off.

You hadn’t showered all day, and feel filthy, so you decide to take one even though your sister and her fiance are over to visit. The water heater is working properly for the first time since you’ve been home, and you’re [...]

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Bediquette

By On June 13, 2009 · 6 Comments · In Girl, intimacy, kinda sorta awk, reflections

Cuddling in bed after sex is possibly one of my favorite things about sex. Just laying there, talking or drifting quietly off to sleep while enjoying one another’s closeness.

That’s what me and Girl were doing yesterday, in her bed at 6 in the morning, after having sated each other. I flopped over, with her [...]

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