Fantasies

By On July 25, 2011 · 14 Comments · In BDSM, Friends & Lovers, genderfuck, journal, sex, sex fantasy, strap on sex

A random list of scenarios I’ve been fantasizing about lately.

Eiffel-towering a guy with another guy. Specifically: me and L co-topping another guy. Most likely I’d be pegging him while he’d be blowing L. Being fucked by somebody else while on the phone with L, describing what’s going on & letting him listen in. This is [...]

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The Wonderful World of Slashfic and Yaoi, and How it Informed my Awakening Sexuality

By On February 22, 2011 · 10 Comments · In field notes, life, porn, reflections, sex fantasy, wanking

Or: The “Porn” I consumed as a 14-year-old.

Disclaimer: I don’t profess to be an expert on this topic. As with practically everything else on this blog, it’s all drawn from my personal experience, and the examples I’m giving are in no way representative of the fandoms as a whole, since there are [...]

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Please, Sir (Virtual Book Tour)

By On May 25, 2010 · 27 Comments · In anal play, BDSM, books, bottom/object, Erotica, fiction, pain, sex fantasy, sex toy review, spanking


If you ask me, submission is an art form. It requires dedication, focus, commitment and desire, and there’s no single way of doing it. It’s about unlocking something within yourself so you can reach beyond your normal limits, exposing your body and soul in order to go somewhere you cannot get to [...]

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Voice

By On April 25, 2010 · 23 Comments · In asphyxiation, BDSM, bottom/object, Erotica, fiction, long distance, sex, sex fantasy, the Inventor

This post is the result of a task Sir set me yesterday. His prompt:

I want you write a story about being fucked by me. Assume your wrists will be bound, and that I will have freedom to roll you on your knees or your back. This story should be full of explicit detail, and [...]

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A Guiding Hand

By On December 30, 2009 · 1 Comment · In BDSM, bottom/object, Erotica, fiction, intimacy, J, sex fantasy, versatile/fluid

Hey, so, Merry Christmas (if you celebrate it) and happy holidays and such. I’ve been spending a lot of time hanging out with family and friends and such and oddly haven’t been in the mood for blogging, until now. Being apart for a month can do that to you, I guess.

I’m quite aware that [...]

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Claiming (2/4): “Assume the position.”

By On November 28, 2009 · 24 Comments · In BDSM, bottom/object, cybersex, Erotica, exhibitionism & voyeurism, in retrospect, journal, long distance, sex, sex fantasy, sex in odd places, Sir, spanking, wanking

These events took place circa. October 2009. Read part 1 here.

Day #2

Two days later, on a typically doleful Monday, I was at work when Sir emailed me. He was at work, too, and was having a stressful day. He asked me if I was up to helping him “relieve [...]

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Peace & Passion

By On September 1, 2009 · 2 Comments · In BDSM, domme/top, Erotica, journal, reflections, sex fantasy, x-posted

[Photo via Mistress Sade]

Last night, I came across a couple of very sexy pictures.

They were black and white pictures of a beautiful naked man in bondage. Leather straps around the chest and legs, collar, cuffs, cock & ball harness, the works. [...]

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Clandestine

By On July 26, 2009 · 2 Comments · In BDSM, Erotica, journal, kinda sorta awk, sex fantasy, spanking, wanking

Sometimes you wonder if you only get your best ideas while you’re jerking off.

You hadn’t showered all day, and feel filthy, so you decide to take one even though your sister and her fiance are over to visit. The water heater is working properly for the first time since you’ve been home, and you’re [...]

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Microfantasy Monday: Tits

By On May 11, 2009 · 13 Comments · In BDSM, domme/top, Erotica, fiction, Queer, sex fantasy

She is sitting, naked, on the edge of your bed, arms at her sides, legs pressed modestly together.

You close your cupboard and turn to face her, two scarves in your hand. Wordlessly, you stand directly in front of her and gently put her arms behind her back, twisting a scarf tightly around her wrists [...]

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Microfantasy Monday: Silence

By On May 5, 2009 · 3 Comments · In Erotica, exhibitionism & voyeurism, fiction, Microfantasy Monday, sex, sex fantasy, sex in odd places

I liked 2-weeks-ago’s theme better so I’m going to be a deviant and go with that one – silence.

When his fingers enter you, he’s rough and abrupt. You start to squeal because you didn’t expect it – he’d barely even gotten your pants down – but his other hand clamps over your [...]

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